Look And You Shall Find

I swear these Social Networks are going to be the death of us. I'm hearing more and more often of people acting out of character to simply scratch that itch. I heard in Church one time [that sentence began all types of wrong], that "you can't get someone by using tricks." Now I'm here to tell you that you can't keep someone but using tricks. And I know the pic might suggest that I'm about to go in on females but IM NOT. Why? Because I'm definitely guilty of putting on my hacker hat and searching for what Im praying I won't find. Problem is, too often we all do this and we find just what we are [but claim not to be] looking for.  

Why do we ignore our womanly and manly intuitions by look deeper for a truth we know is already there? Because we want something, someone to prove us wrong. Right? Because of this, we turn into these crazed maniacs doing the most. 

• The Fake Page - Too many times I've spoke to people who have actually gone through the trouble of finding fake pictures, fake information, and creating fake, Facebook, Twitter, Myspace and even BlackPlanet pages, just to catch someone lying and cheating. Yes. I said BlackPlanet. As soon as you find yourself on Google Images looking for a fake profile picture to steal, it's time realize that maybe this person you're about to sneak on is actually doing what you think they are.

• The Hacker - That's me LOL. I don't do it really. Honestly. I've been in situation where the dude was taking a shower after he got a mysterious text message and I didn't even go through his phone. I should have stolen his wallet but instead I sat back and watched TV while sipping my wine. Why? Because I know my gut was right. Period. Now I HAVE come across atleast one situation where I was simply curious. And of course I found something that I didn't like but it wasn't what I expected. However, at the end of the day it's wrong. Some people break into phone, emails, and anything that contains a Password and ID just to be sure. And while I can relate, I'd be mad if someone was snoopin all up in my phone like a crack head looking for change. 

• The Bill Collector- You come home find that your phone bill is on the table with every other line highlighted and the minutes used circled in red pen. No, this is not a movie. You've just investigated the person you're with down to the minutes used! At this point, clearly something has been going wrong. You may have even been logging the miles in his car. Thats bad...real bad, Joe Jackson. 

Hopefully you don't fall into these categories. Because if you do, I know for a fact that you probably found exactly what you've been looking for. If your gut tells you the house is on fire. Just run out because child the house is on fire.